While this may sound like a compliment, it is not. It perpetuates a stereotype about what it means to be gay (this also applies to our bisexual, lesbian, or transgender brothers and sisters). We are as diverse and different as the rest of the population.
Acceptance should be rooted in appreciating what we all contribute to society as individuals, rather than what we look like, how we are perceived, or whether we fit in archaic social roles and norms.